Nicholas Sparks said, “The best love is the kind that awakens the soul and makes us reach for more, that plants a fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. And that’s what you’ve given me. That’s what I’d hoped to give you forever”.
I truly believe in these lines cause being in love and loving someone is simply so beautiful.
It is not always easy to tell the person you love them, you know? Sometimes you may be dying to say it, but it just wouldn’t make sense probably because the relationship is very new, or you’re still confused whether you’re actually in love!
On the other hand, maybe you are letting it all go unnoticed when your ‘special one’ is trying to show his/her love to you so hard.
7 ways to show your love without saying it aloud!
Don’t worry, as there are a thousand ways to show ‘the one’ that you care for them and love them without really saying ‘I love you’!
These 7 things prove there is love in the air even when none of the parties ‘say’ it.
1. No phones
It’s an era when people literally live in their smartphones. They wake up looking for their phones first, and probably go to bed at night after checking the numerous mails, social media messages, and so on!
However, if your loved one does not use his/her phone when he/she’s near you, that really means you are special. They do not use their phones when they’re around you because just being with you becomes their utmost priority.
Being present is really very important for any relationship to thrive. Even I am addicted to Facebook, but if I love someone profoundly, I would give up using the app or let go of any other distraction when I’m around him. It really matters.
2. Your goal, their goal
More often than not, even your parents may not support your ambitions; but if your lover does: OMG, you’ve won a lottery! Not everyone will be there by your side when you have a crazy ambition in mind.
Even if your partner does not say it, you can see through his/her actions and words that he/she supports you in everything that you do. If that’s not love, then what is?
If you truly love someone, set them feel like a butterfly and let him/her do anything that their hearts wish for. Encourage them to live their dreams and do not force your thoughts upon them.
Yes, you may put forward your points if they’re practical, but do not discourage them at any cost. If they’re doing better than you in life, be happy for them and not envious ever! That wouldn’t even be love at the first place, you know?
3. Be a partner at doing chores
It is always expected that a woman would do the household chores, but hey, who made that rule? You should be partners at everything, even when it comes to doing housework, like washing clothes, or doing the dishes.
When you help your girl with simple things like these, it only shows how much you care for her, and how much you want to help her in everything that she does. These li’l things would speak out a louder ‘I LOVE YOU‘ even when you don’t say it to her in person.
Contribute towards this ‘noble’ deed and you would gain only respect and love in your partner’s eyes, and obviously it would show her how much you love her.
Simple gestures like holding onto your partner’s hand when you want to cross the road, or while taking an evening stroll at the park can take your relationship a long way! I personally love it even when my friends hold my hand to help me cross the road, because they know I get scared to do it alone! It just shows how much they care for me and love me. They do not have to say to me personally that they do. I just know it.
Holding hands can make you feel so connected and it is not really PDA! Couples who hold hands more often just show that there’s tenderness and warmth in their relationship. Physical touches are important, and no, they do not always mean they want to end up with SEX!
5. Say thank you
They say, “Gratitude turns what we have into enough.” Being thankful is so important! I feel gratitude makes you a better person because you are contented with what you have and you’re thankful for every small thing in your life.
Small things that your partner does for you can say so much about their depth of love for you, even when they do not say, ‘I love you’. Remind your ‘special one’ of how thankful you are for every small sacrifice or compromise that they do for you, appreciate them and make them feel wanted and loved.
Thank them even if you’ve had great sex, show your gratitude for every small thing. You know what I mean?
6. Buy meals
They say, “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach“. Ah, that equally goes for women too, I must say! Cooking your partner’s favorite dishes, or simply taking him out on a date and ordering his most loved meals can show how much you love him!
I buy my best friend chocolate donuts whenever feasible, and I’m sure she knows I do it out of love. Nothing can be better than offering food as a gift or as a language of love, don’t you think?
7. Solid conversations
Sharing emotions is an integral part of any relationship, but not everyone is comfortable in putting forth their feelings. Your partner may have had a rough day, but did you notice it, or cared to ask if there’s anything wrong?
One way to let your partner know how much they mean to you is by letting them know you’re always there, no matter what. Ask her if she’s feeling fine and listen to her patiently. Sometimes all she wants is for you to just listen. Support her in her trying times and never let go. Even staying and holding on means you love her so much!
“Love is of all passions the strongest, for it attacks simultaneously the head, the heart and the senses” ~ Lao Tzu.
Even if you don’t express your feelings or say ‘I love you’ every now and then, these 7 things mentioned above will show your partner what he/she means to you. Spread love and let it keep coming. Good day!